Many
times, children experience fear because of the pressure that parents put on
them. Although parents need to make the children understand the importance of
examinations, they should not go overboard. They should not pressurize their
children so much, that they are not able to study anything. Parents must
encourage children to study regularly, and instill confidence in them, so that
they are able to appear for their exams confidently. Effective Ways to
Communicate With Your Boss Worried about how to talk to your boss about an
urgent leave? Too scared about losing your job over a small goof-up? It is only
fair! But with effective ways to communicate with your boss, we promise to
build your confidence in approaching your boss and speaking your mind. TAGGED
UNDER: Workplace Communication Advertisement Don't blame the boss. He has
enough problems. ~ Donald Rumsfeld Bosses become the most intimidating people
in our adult life. They practically hold the power to make or break our careers
and the lives that get connected with them. It is this role which makes it even
more difficult for many people to communicate with their boss. However, one
really cannot get away by avoiding the boss every time. There comes a time when
each person in the office cannot avoid talking to the boss.
The problem
complicates further when the Zymbiotix boss is younger than you. It creates a
psychological rift, where one part of the mind rationalizes that your boss is
inexperienced and misusing the given authority; while the other part has to
reason to respect the decisions that your boss makes. The simple thought of
communicating with your boss can get you all stressed out and anxious. But we
have a solution to your anxiety. These simple tips will help you communicate
effectively with your boss. So let's take a look at what they are. Best Ways of
Communicating With Your Boss Pick a Good Time There is always a time and a
place for everything. If you are caught in a case of bad timing, little can be
done to salvage the situation. Thus, it is important to pick a good time to
communicate with your boss. A little late in the morning, when he or she is
relatively free, and also during breaks if you are addressing a personal issue,
are good times to get things across to your boss. If you are unable to find a
good time, then try getting an appointment from the personal assistant of your
boss. Be Clear Often, people keep beating around the bush and never get to the
point. This is a sheer waste of your and your boss' time. Additionally, the
point also remains lost in the conversation. Although it is justified to be
anxious about discussing the topic with your boss, it is also true that you
need to broach it. If needed, rehearse what you need to say, and get to the
point in no more than five minutes into the conversation. Be clear about what
you have to say, request, or announce.
Better the clarity in conversation,
easier it is to fetch results. Avoid Rude Distractions It is rather rude when a
conversation gets interrupted due to a ringing phone. Also, a conversation with
your boss is not an everyday thing. Thus, give it a little more importance than
what a phone needs at that point of time. Put your phone on silent mode to keep
your focus on the conversation. Another annoying thing are wrist watch alarms.
You might have set these alarms to remind you of certain things to do or
follow-up. But make sure you either turn them off or remove the watch before
you walk through that door. Listen More A boss, more often than not, loves to
talk. So after you propose your idea, it is most likely that your boss will
want to share his thoughts on it, probably challenge it, draw up an analogy, or
pick up an argument. It is important that you listen more than you feel like
talking at this point of time. Be an active listener, try to understand what is
being said, and clarify any points if they have been misunderstood. Articulate
Your Thoughts Sometimes, we know it when a certain idea is not going to go down
well with the boss! At times like these, all we do is hope for the best.
However, what you can do is, word your thoughts in a way that they come out
with conviction. Words can leave an indelible impression. Thus, make sure that
what you say leaves a good impression at least. Avoid the usage of unnecessary
jargon, and turn your aggression into assertion, to prove your point and
convince your boss. Mind Your Language To be effective at communication, one
needs to be careful of one's body language too, besides just words!
Have you
ever seen a person slouch, mumble, sweat, or get fidgety while delivering a
speech? No good speakers and effective communicators talk this way. A confident
person who speaks to stir certain emotions in his listeners can be an effective
communicator. This is the aim with which you need to communicate with your
boss. Look your boss in the eye, avoid too many gesticulations, keep a calm
tone, correct your posture, and totally avoid any kind of negative facial
expressions while communicating with him. If your goal is to develop a
long-term ground for good communication, then you need to build a friendly
rapport with your boss. Fearing your boss will only complicate things for you.
Have an open and positive mind as you walk towards getting over your fears.
Accept this challenge of being heard in the corporate world. Tips to Break the
Habit of Skin Picking Waiting for a job interview, watching an exciting soccer
game, expecting a message from a crush, or simply gazing at the sky, relaxing
on the pool-chair. These are some of the many situations where one finds
oneself too anxious and hence reflexively tries to pick on every inch of skin
which is at close proximity of one's hand. We do know that it is something that
shouldn't be done. But then, how do we control the urge? TAGGED UNDER: Healthy
Habits Advertisement Love it, hate it, but you can't ignore it. No matter if
you feel happy, sad, anxious, or just plain indifferent, you can't resist
yourself from picking your skin. Doesn't it sound like an addiction? An
alarming state of a maniac who's lost it all! There are many of us who are
addicted to skin picking. A habit dear to you right from your childhood.
The
pleasure you gained in picking on your skin around the nails and lips was
enough to keep you busy throughout your childhood. And now, it has grown into
an impulsive control "disorder". Can it really be cured? Well, cure
isn't the correct word. Let's say, we can help you stop or break the habit of
skin picking by the following ways. Know what causes it If you accept that it
is a disease and you need to come out of it, do a thorough research on it. Skin
picking disorder or dermatillomania is caused due to external as well as
internal factors. Tanning, dust, smog, and exposure to harmful microbes -
bacteria and virus - can be the external factors. Your diet, water, or other
supplements that you have can play a role as well. It can also be passed on to
you as a hereditary syndrome. But the most common cause is deep inside your
head; as the coping mechanism to deal with high levels of turmoil, anxiety, or
stress. List down things that relax you Note down the things and activities
that help you relax. Do some painting. Play your guitar. Do yoga. Go for a
sauna. Read magazines, novels, or books. Watch a movie. Listen to music. Or
perhaps take a nap. It will help you curb the anxiety that compels you to start
skin picking. The Hate Approach It may sound funny, but try this. Many in the
world have found great relief in doing so. Take a large picture/poster of your
favorite celebrity and paste it in your room. Take a red marker and draw zits
and scars all over their face. Now sit and watch it. Then, using the marker
draw a bold and dark cross all over the picture.
This will remind you what "NOT"
to become. Idle hands are the devil's workshop Quite self-explanatory in this
case. Keep your hands occupied. Take a squeeze ball or those popular Chinese
Caomaru balls. To prevent biting around your nails, apply a bandage in that
area or apply some fancy nail paint (for girls). That way, you will be less
tempted to dig on your skin. Another reliable practice is to wear gloves. That
way your hand remains covered, and your grip on any other object to pick skin
completely wears away. Inspirations on the go Stick inspirational quotes and
sayings everywhere you go. The kitchen (refrigerator) door, toilet door
(preferably the inner side), car's dashboard, or cupboards of your room. In
this digital age, you rather set the quotes as wallpapers of your laptop and
cell phones. This way, wherever you go, you will be reminded "NOT" to
do it. Keep loneliness at bay When do you pick ideally? Whenever you are alone
doing nothing! So, better we take this "loneliness" out of the scene.
Try to remain engaged in something or the other. If you live alone, try to hang
out - go to some departmental store, visit your friends, go partying, or go to
some fine restaurant and treat yourself with whatever you like. Healthy
lifestyle It all boils down to the same fact again and again - "A healthy
lifestyle is the key to happy well-being". Do regular exercises - yoga,
morning walks, jogs, simple stress-relieving exercises like aerobics, etc. This
will refresh you and lower your anxiety level. Avoid eating too much fried junk
food and instead go for nutritious food like salads, sprouts, juices, soups,
raw vegetables, and fruits.
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